Forgiveness

If she can forgive the people who killed her entire family while she hid in a bathroom for three months with 7-8 other women, then how dare I not forgive the little insult from a co-worker, or family member, the little hurt of this or that, if she can survive this genocide, and forgive! Then surely I can.

The Lord's prayer says: "forgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us", when we say it, do we really mean it?